Oh, did I type that outloud?
Dean Saxton, you are a moron and a complete, utter disgrace to men everywhere!
This is NOT ok.
As some of you may or may not know my husband is a “Street Preacher” an evangelist on the streets – maybe you have seen us down on Mill Avenue, close to ASU – we (not me.. or any other woman…) but one of the men are usually standing on a “soap box” with a church or a well respected group of men and women who take pride in the Bible and what it says… It is a clear message of repentance & salvation by grace.
Before you read any further – you need to know that all the points I have listed are from personal observation and experience:
You also need to know that as a former rape victim – and I say that out loud so that you COMPLETELY understand where I am coming from – Rape is NOT ok – but there are some things you can do to prevent becoming one of the 80%.
Here are some things you need to know that you don’t really think about:
Does anyone “deserve” rape?
Only a FREAKING IDIOT WOULD ASK THAT!! The answer of course is NO – with a swift, HARD slap upside the head of the fool asking that question!
However – with that being said – Show some respect for yourselves ladies/girls…. (And I use that term loosely at this point…)
1. Respect yourself
2. Hang with friends who respect themselves
3. Only go out with people who respect you
But…. In my case – it was a date-rape – I knew better, within the first hour that this guy was a buffoon – and worse, I was out of town with a “friend” who had absolutely no respect for me or herself – I wanted to be “cool” so I played the tramp… and paid for it dearly!
So… If you are like me, and you’re a little slow where the self-worth area is concerned, here are some guides (Just do it!):
I was going to insert a picture here … but… yeah – I couldn’t find one that was “G” enough to use an example… so just look around – you’ll see what I mean….
And when it came to my daughter – if she walked out the door in something I see some of these girls wearing today – she didn’t go out for a week, and when she did “go out” it was a “come in” my house so I could do an evaluation of the “friends” she was hanging with!
Just the thought of her disrespecting herself… this precious gift that God “knitted together in my womb” how could she think that, that, is all she had to offer someone….
There are more clothes on most “girls” little rat-dogs then they have on themselves… as a matter of fact – I suppose they could shop at the same stores in some instances….
And here is some more words of wisdom:
People do not give away what they value.
I know there is very little value in what women think of themselves these days…
It is evident by the way they are dressed.
Well, I know you still are thinking/contemplating…
So, let me help you out a little more:
No means no – but it’s heard a lot louder when your girlfriends are shouting/screaming at the top of their lungs and at the SOB along with fighting him off of you!
Just say’n… kick’n some ideas around… you know…
But you had better make damn sure that you know what you are up against – its a rough road, offenders/victims, today’s “choice” attire, society as a whole… and those women who cry “rape” and it is no where near rape – I HATE those women! and I am not alone –
So, beware – morals & values, society, dress and your “friends” are all taken into consideration and open to scrutiny –
Sooooooooooooo – don’t you want to be SURE that you have done everything in your power to insure your integrity AND your reputation… not to mention the TRUTH. Because I promise you, “There is nothing covered that will not be revealed.” (all the Gospels quote this same Psalm).
Final words of wisdom:
Look, here’s the deal – God thinks more of you than you do. He calls you a blessing – formed by His own hands (Gen. 2) because this planet could NOT function without you!
You are a precious gift to behold and even though AMERICA is KILLING babies by droves…. God thinks LIFE is important enough to acknowledge every single hair on your head. (Psalms and Proverbs).
Don’t waste the gift you are – the promise you have in Christ. “He has plans for you… to give you a hope and a future…” (Jeremiah)
It is time to grow up and become the Lady you were called to be. (Proverbs 31).
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