Holly T. Ashley

Oh did I type that outloud?


Men have an insatiable appetite that only women can fulfill. Today’s American women are offering men an “all you can eat buffet,” of every possible type of “cuisine” to meet the desires of these men, without requiring anything from them. So we are only to blame for the type of proverbial food we set before them.

Until women #RaiseTheBar and demand a Titus 2 or 2nd Timothy man in order to “be fed” the problem will remain and the battle will continue – a never ending cycle of disaster that goes against God’s perfect design.Proverbs-31-10-Who-can-find-a-Virtuous-Woman-red-copy1

We have the “play book” we cannot simply read it, then go out onto the field and play by our own rules of lustful desires and immediate gratification – we must play by the Rule book that God has given to man, the rules of life in which to live by.

Until mothers’ consent to teach their daughters to demand God’s standard of a man, men will never rise to the occasion… why would they? As it is said, why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?

What is worse, women are dating men that are not fit for marriage and then say “yes” when proposed, hoping that they can change the men, when God has ordained them to be the leaders and they will lead… even straight to hell.

Young women, single women- of all ages, need to understand that they hold the power to “just say no.” They have the tools to fulfill God’s design of virtue that He has instilled upon her. She is the only gift, specifically designed and hand-crafted and then presented as a gift to man, as the only, perfect, suitable helper for mankind –

VirtuousWomanWhy would we lower His standards by lowering ours?

So for all the women who complain about the mean, abusive, angry, vile men of this world, remember that we are the ones who have allowed their behavior to degenerate without consequence. We are the ones who say, “Yes, please – take me to dinner, no need to treat me like a lady and yes, I’ll wear provocative clothing. No, you don’t have to demonstrate any form of manhood, respect or responsibility – as a matter of fact, I’ll pay. I’ll work. I’ll clean up your messes. I’ll make excuses for you and justify your behavior.”

Imagine the change if we would simply #RaiseTheBar.

2 comments on “#RaiseTheBar

  1. insanitybytes22
    April 25, 2016

    Raise the bar, I love this. 🙂

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