Holly T. Ashley

Exposing abuse, confronting deception, and calling the Church back to biblical justice.

Victimology 101: How Sociopathic Pastors Groom, Control, and Silence Women

How sociopathic pastors groom and silence women through charm, gaslighting, and spiritual authority—and how the Church enables abuse instead of confronting it.

October 23, 2025

Leading Children into Sin.

It has been proven repeatedly that childhood trauma, such as sexual and physical, emotional, spiritual, and psychological abuse, can last throughout a person’s lifetime. These childhood traumatic experiences are even … Continue reading

October 18, 2023 · 7 Comments

What a Wonderful day That was, 28 Years ago, When I was 28.

September 25, 1993. Just like yesterday. I remember this day so well. It was indeed a wonderful day! I was 28 years old. I had a dream about the baby … Continue reading

September 25, 2021 · 1 Comment

Lord, please don’t come just yet.

Sometimes I wonder if I am the only person alive who does not daily cry out for the Lord to come. But I don’t. I just can’t. I cry out … Continue reading

April 10, 2017 · 9 Comments

A message to my daughter…

And maybe yours too… There are some things that I never taught you, some things that are so very important to the rest of your life. Oh, I taught you … Continue reading

September 21, 2016 · 2 Comments

Testing the limits…

This morning I received a phone call from a friend… It’s actually a recurring phone call, conversation and/or discussion I find myself involved in- with many moms of today. If … Continue reading

September 10, 2015

Megyn Kelly- “Stop it. Stop it. Stop it!” Women are NOT Victims!

Megyn Kelly took the opportunity to point out what a douche bag Donald Trump is on the stage of the Republican Primary a few nights ago… Like we didn’t know … Continue reading

August 10, 2015

The root of the problem? Sin. The answer? Salvation.

Based on his own admission, Josh sinned, repented and got saved. Why in the world would Christians be appalled to discover an unregenerate 14-year-old boy acted wickedly? According to Josh … Continue reading

May 27, 2015

God puts the “Order” in “Disorder”

“Remember the days of old; consider the years of many generations.” (Deut. 32:7a) Understanding our past… our roots… the reasons why – are important. Not only does it help us … Continue reading

May 11, 2015 · 1 Comment

Happy Mothers Day to Me.

I will never forget the night… I was awakened by a rush of fear that came over me like a waterfall.  In the quietness of my bedroom… I remember laying … Continue reading

May 7, 2015 · 5 Comments

Clarity over comfort. Scripture over sentiment. Courage over cowardice. Holly T. Ashley, M.S.

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